senior centers are in demand in N.J.
The Bergen Record
THURSDAY JUNE 21, 2012, 12:22 AM
They don’t want to listen to Sinatra; they want to learn how to play the guitar.
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Sheryl Sarnack leading a yoga class at the Senior Source
at the Shops at Riverside in Hackensack.
They don’t want baked chicken and mashed potatoes; they want baked brie and cabernet.
And they certainly don’t want to go anyplace where the day’s biggest
excitement is the visiting nurse checking their blood pressure.
Senior centers are being reinvented to cater to a baby boom generation looking for something different
in a golden-years hangout. Many of these over-65 residents are in good health, working full time or taking care of grandchildren.
They don’t want to be treated like they’re old — in fact many won’t even go to a place with “senior”
over the door.
“I think the name,
ultimately, is going to have to change at some point,” said Bonnie Leibowitz, co-president of the New Jersey Association
of Senior Center Directors.
“I have 90-year-olds who tell me they don’t want to be around older people all the time.”
The label “senior center” conjures an image of a room with metal
folding chairs and wheelchairs positioned around rectangular tables, a bland but nutritious lunch at every setting. In the
corner — to be rolled out later — a bingo cage.
But more and more, seniors are looking for places to meet where they won’t just pass the time
but get some advice on how to better manage it. Places where they can discuss art, books and movies and get tips on how to
decrease stress, de-clutter their homes, get jobs, stay healthy, stay fit, stay out of the nursing home — or for that
matter, stay out of their imagined idea of a senior center where the highlight is a cup of applesauce for dessert.
One such hip gathering place for seniors opened
in Hackensack’s Shops at Riverside mall two years ago in a stylish storefront. It looks more akin to a hotel lobby
or a cocktail lounge than one of the government-run “senior nutrition sites” in North Jersey.
“I just thought it looked interesting,” said Lola Small, 81, who
popped into the Senior Source one day and became a regular...Read More